For instance, I finally delegated the task of home and auto insurance to him, something that was proving more difficult than I anticipated. He gladly took up the torch and has been working hard on it all week. Last night I had a nightmare that we'd basically made up our insurance company and were being rejected for a tiny tiny claim.
See also our plans for moving. We're moving out of our apartment and taking a two week trip. We don't want to leave our car at the airport ($8 a day!), but we can't leave it at our apartment unless it's on the street. Last night, after my insurance nightmare, I dreamed that our friends were now living out of their cars but had to move every night and could never. find. a. place. to. park. them.
Like I said, I fret and dream and rework. B simply gets it done.
So it's no surprise that today, when he gchatted me about rates and companies, our conversation went like this:
B: Remind me to do that when I get home. Here's what people think about Travelers (insert link).
Me: Oh. Hm.. that's not great.
B: Here's what they think about State Farm-- much better.
Me: You're right.
B: And here's what they think about USAA.
Me: Wow. We'll compare apples to apples tonight, or at least apples to apple-shaped oranges.
Me: FYI-- Sam's is selling Saturn Peaches. Basically peaches shaped like donuts.
Me: Freaked me out.
B: Ok, back to work for me.
As I always say, I may be crazy, but he married crazy. And that's a choice.